Long before text messages and social media, flowers were used to communicate complex feelings and messages. This ancient practice, known as floriography or the "language of flowers," flourished in Victorian England but has deep roots in Swedish culture as well.
In Sweden, where our connection to nature runs deep, flowers have long been used to convey sentiments that might otherwise go unspoken. Today, we explore this fascinating tradition and how it continues to influence our floral practices today.
Historical Context
The Swedish tradition of using flowers symbolically dates back to medieval times but gained particular prominence during the 18th and 19th centuries. During this period, strict social codes often prevented direct expression of feelings, especially in matters of love and romance. Flowers provided a subtle yet meaningful way to communicate.
While the Victorian era standardized many flower meanings across Europe, Sweden maintained some unique interpretations based on our folklore, climate, and cultural values.
Significant Flowers in Swedish Tradition
Lily of the Valley (Liljekonvalj)
These delicate white bells are particularly significant in Swedish culture. They symbolize purity and the return of happiness. In Sweden, Lily of the Valley is strongly associated with spring and is the traditional flower of Walpurgis Night (Valborgsmässoafton).
Linnaea Borealis (Linnéa)
Named after the famous Swedish botanist Carl Linnaeus, this small twinflower is deeply connected to Swedish identity. It represents humility, constancy, and a connection to the northern forests. Giving this flower suggests a love that is modest but enduring.
Blue Anemone (Blåsippa)
As one of the first flowers to bloom in Swedish forests, the blue anemone symbolizes anticipation and new beginnings. In Swedish tradition, it carries connotations of loyalty and the first stirrings of love.
Daisy (Prästkrage)
The simple daisy holds special meaning in Swedish rural traditions. It represents innocence and loyal love. Young women would traditionally pick off petals saying "älskar" (loves me) and "älskar inte" (loves me not).
Roses (Rosor)
While roses have universal symbolism, different colors have specific meanings in Swedish tradition:
- Red: Passionate love and desire
- White: Purity, innocence, and new beginnings
- Pink: Gratitude and appreciation
- Yellow: In Sweden, unlike elsewhere, yellow roses traditionally represent friendship rather than jealousy
Swedish Calendar of Flowers
Sweden has a tradition of associating specific flowers with each day of the year, connected to name days in the Swedish calendar. This practice, known as "blomsterspråket" (the flower language), gives each day its own floral emblem and meaning.
When someone celebrates their name day, they may receive flowers associated with that particular day. This tradition connects flowers not just with emotions but with identity and celebration of individuals.
Modern Interpretations
Today, while many Swedes may not know all the historical meanings of flowers, certain traditions persist. For example:
- Red tulips remain popular Valentine's Day gifts, symbolizing declaration of love
- White lilies are still common at funerals, representing the restored innocence of the soul
- Midsummer celebrations incorporate wildflowers, particularly seven different varieties placed under pillows to dream of future spouses
- Housewarmings often feature geraniums or kalanchoe, symbolizing wishes for a warm and lasting home
Contemporary Gifting Etiquette
While the detailed "language of flowers" may not guide all floral exchanges in modern Sweden, certain practices remain important:
- Flowers are typically presented unwrapped or in simple paper, allowing their natural beauty to be the focus
- An odd number of flowers is traditionally preferred (except for funeral arrangements)
- For dinner hosts, flowers should ideally be delivered before or sent after, so they don't need immediate attention
Creating Meaningful Bouquets
At Cash Impacts Flowers, we embrace this rich tradition by helping our customers create arrangements that convey specific sentiments. Whether you're expressing love, gratitude, sympathy, or celebration, the composition and selection of flowers can add depth to your message.
The next time you're selecting flowers for someone special, consider incorporating elements of this beautiful language. Even in our digital age, there remains something profoundly moving about communicating through the silent eloquence of blooms.